You know what irks me the most?

When friends that are in relationships end up falling out of their social life. They become so involved with their partner and they somehow lose contact with their friends. 

Then that phase that everyone goes through comes up, trying to get a hold of said friend and make plans to catch up. “Omg I miss you! We need to hang out soon!”. Sometimes plans go through and everything goes back to normal, but that isn’t always the case. Sometimes plans get cancelled and the constant chase to catch up continues until someone gives up.

It’s really upsetting - especially if you were friends with them for so long. You were with them for everything and for them to just disappear like that… And it sucks because you know you want to be happy for them, but you can’t help but feel somewhat jealous. I hate to say this but what happens when the relationship is over? They always come running back.

You just need to find that balance. Give yourself time away from your partner, not only will your friends appreciate it but it will make your relationship ten times stronger.

For “Distance makes the heart grow fonder”.

Posted: Mon October 10th, 2011 at 10:24am
Tagged: personal rant relationships friends ugh
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